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- Confidence
Trust is a very valuable quality in life; we are taught this quality in our families from childhood.
Trust is something without which relationships in family and friendship cannot be strong and happy. It is the basis for creating a connection; it is not without reason that it comes from the phrase “to be confident.”
Trust arises when two people respect each other, understand each other perfectly, and support each other. When you can tell any secret without hesitation, and you know that it will not be shared with anyone.
Mutual trust is a personal choice for everyone; it is a kind of relationship work that gives a feeling of confidence and security.
How to build trust in family or friendship?
You must always remain honest. In any situation, tell the truth face to face, because honesty is a key factor of trust; a “white lie” can destroy any relationship.
Always keep your word. A person who promises and does not take responsibility for his words will not be able to gain trust.
Always remain sincere with the people who surround us, because by openly expressing our emotions, we create a sense of trust in the interlocutor.
Do not change your position depending on situations, because a changeable position is a sign of an unreliable person.
There is no need to discuss a person behind his back, much less tell his personal life in detail. Sooner or later, information about this conversation will spread and trust will be lost.
Unfortunately, trust is very easy to destroy. Sometimes one action or word is enough to break off a long-term friendship.
It is worth noting that regaining trust is very difficult.
So, should we return it?
Firstly, you need to show attention and give a little time for the person to come to his senses.
Secondly, sincerely ask for forgiveness for the situation that undermined trust, and express your sympathy.
Thirdly, if the apology was not accepted, do not be upset; it is better to back up your words with action.
And most importantly, analyze your behavior and why you behaved the way you did. Analyze the current situation so as not to make mistakes and lose the trust of a close friend in the future.
To summarize, it should be noted that trust is one of the most important qualities in life, which is very difficult to gain and easy to lose.
Option 2
Trust often occurs between people who respect and love each other and have pure intentions. This is a kind of hope of one person to receive reciprocity from another. Friendship and family are built on such feelings. If there is no trust in any relationship, then it will not last long and will disappear without a trace.
It's wonderful to have someone nearby who you can trust with personal secrets. Frank and pure relationships are built on this high feeling. Next to a person you trust, you can be yourself, not have to choose words, and at the same time feel safe.
Not everyone can open their soul to everyone. Only decent, sincere, good-natured, open people deserve trust. They can only be selected friends who have been tested by time and various situations. And everyone else is just acquaintances.
It happens that we give credit to completely unworthy people. But when they betray us, we feel hurt and offended because it was to them that we opened our souls.
When there is understanding between people, then there is harmony. It's great when you can speak out and get the support you expect. In life, you must strive to have people in your close circle who will not betray or reproach, but will listen, help and give wise advice.
Even in work you need trust. Partnerships will not produce positive results if there is no faith in them. The patient must trust the doctor, then the treatment will become more productive. There are a lot of professions in which confidentiality is important.
The relationship between children and their parents must first of all be trusting. The child’s behavior in society and his future depend on this.
When a person realizes that he is surrounded by traitors and hypocrites. He becomes withdrawn and loses trust in all people. This is why there are frequent revelations with complete strangers (for example, with fellow travelers on a train).
Only a person with high moral principles and a developed spiritual world can keep a secret, be sincerely happy for a friend and give the right advice. These are the people who deserve trust and respect. They are often self-confident and do not wish harm to others. And angry, arrogant and negative people should not be trusted, even small secrets. They are not capable of positive actions. Therefore, you can only trust time-tested people.
Essay about Trust
In the movie Vertical, Vladimir Vysotsky sings a song about friendship, which contains the words: “like yourself, rely on him...”. In my opinion, these words are the meaning of trust, that is, the essence is the ability to have the same confidence in another that you have in yourself. It’s not for nothing that they say “I trust as myself”; this expression means real trust.
If you think about it, it becomes clear that a person can have self-confidence, since he knows himself and his own needs, and is unlikely to act to his own detriment. Of course, in some ways this issue is debatable, but if we take some general and global factors, then a person will not seek harm to himself and more often simply seeks banal benefit. Trusting another means having confidence in the other person's understanding of your personality and needs.
In addition, trust presupposes the other's interest in your well-being and development. After all, people can know each other, but use such understanding to their detriment.
For example, there are people who have a more or less normal understanding of human nature and psychology. Only now they use such knowledge for their own benefit, in order to look for various weaknesses in others or even generate and develop vices. It is clear that such people should not be trusted, they do not deserve trust, although they may be educated and even enjoy some position in society.
From this we can conclude a simple conclusion - trust is a property that is close to morality. If a person is spiritually and morally developed, then there are much more reasons to trust him, because such a person tries to treat others with respect and understanding, and does not cause harm. On the other hand, if a person is filled with pride or anger, then he is unlikely to be trustworthy, since such qualities will simply make him act negatively.
Here we need to draw another conclusion - you need to trust people who have self-control, and will not give in to slavery to their feelings. As Vysotsky’s song says, “I didn’t whine, I didn’t whine,” that is, people who prevail over their feelings deserve trust.
9th grade 15.3 OGE
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Reasoning 3
In my opinion, the topic of the essay is very interesting and deep. What is trust? Each of us should think about this question, and in my essay I will try to describe what I understand by the word “trust.”
For me, trust is a very valuable quality that is difficult to earn and easy to lose. If I trust a person, it means that he is extremely important and valuable to me. Trust does not appear at the first meeting. My trust can be gained through a long journey, difficult situations and tests of strength.
A striking example of a person in whom I feel an absolute sense of trust is my mother. She never betrayed me, did not deceive me, supported me in difficult moments and is a true friend to me! Our feeling of trust is mutual. And that's great. I am happy that there is such a person in my life. After all, unfortunately, many people do not justify the trust placed in them, they betray and deceive. It's unpleasant and painful. After being let down once, I can't trust that person again. Maybe I'm wrong, and we need to give people a second chance, but I believe that if a person does not respect and appreciate the trust placed in him, then he is unreliable and capable of failing again and again.
Trust is the basis of relationships, both in love and friendship. I have two friends to whom I trust my secrets. I can share my experiences with them and I know that they will not tell anyone about it, they will always listen and support. I also carefully protect their secrets. Even if we have misunderstandings and minor quarrels, we still keep each other’s secrets, thereby showing that our friendship is real, sincere, in which trust and mutual understanding reign. It is impossible to open your soul to a person you don’t trust. Therefore, I make every effort to make my friends and family feel comfortable and confident around me, knowing that I am always there and that they can trust me with their most intimate things. Such people inspire respect, love, and most importantly, they have a clear conscience and a calm soul.
Essay What is Trust
You can often hear that mistrust is a sin, but this does not mean that you need to become a slave to such a theoretical definition and trust everyone. Trust is generally a psychological meaning, it is so personal, deep and sometimes defies logic that sometimes you wonder why we are afraid to trust our closest relatives, and sometimes, without any hesitation, we can do this in relation to just an ordinary person, even a stranger? And it’s true, in some cases, entrusting something intimate to a loved one, something for which you are ashamed, is not very easy, we realize what will happen if he doesn’t perceive it that way, and what if what we want to entrust to him is not is within the scope of his perception, because not everyone is able to accept us for who we really are.
For example, we met and began to trust a new person, and then suddenly it turned out that he does not deserve our trust, in which case we become disappointed, become depressed, hold a grudge, and change our minds. But here we rather need to be angry at our own illusions that we have built, since all people are absolutely normal for their own values, and if these values do not coincide with ours, no one is to blame.
Next comes fear, fear, which we accumulate with experience, because why are children so gullible?! Yes, because they do not yet have such acquired fear as adults do, and from this we can conclude that in order for a person to have a trusting relationship when growing up, it is necessary to initially build a trusting paradigm in such pairs as a child - parents, a student - teacher, trust is simply a must here be a priori, but it often does not exist.
Parents devote little time to their children, it is rare in which families it is customary to share their experiences, feelings, discuss successes and failures, all this negatively affects trust, which in the future may not exist at all. The child will withdraw into his shell and will not want to trust his innermost secrets to loved ones, believing that they will not understand him and will torture him with total control and moralizing. Therefore, to prevent this from happening, we need to learn from the first years to build a relationship based on trust and learn to respect those who trust us, because trust is important, and, more precisely, it is everything.
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OGE grade 9. Task 15.3.
Text for work (I) I was returning home from the taiga one day, but I was late. (2) Still, I wanted to get to my home, to the fishing village, before nightfall. (3) I went out along the stream to the seashore. (4) The wind blew up. (5) In the forest he walks along the peaks, and at sea he created a strong wave. (6) On the way home, I still had to go around the bay. (7) As soon as I turned from the depths of the bay back towards the open sea, I saw: I couldn’t get through. (8) A strong surge is coming, the waves are already overwhelming the sandy strip with their crests, they can easily knock you off your feet and drag you into the sea... (9) One road remains: up, onto a steep cliff. (10) And the water rushes on: it’s already creeping up to the boots, soon it will overwhelm the tops. (P) I started to climb up. (12) And with a heavy backpack and even a gun, climbing rocks is not very convenient. (13) And it began to get dark earlier than usual. (14) The sky is densely covered with clouds, I feel: it will get dark soon. (15) You need to arrange your lodgings for the night ahead of time, otherwise in the dark you won’t be able to break your head for long. (16) I climbed up a little more and stopped to catch my breath. (17) I see: the platform on the rock is small. (18) Do I need much alone? (19) But the site is convenient: the rock hangs over it like a canopy, the rain is not terrible, and there is shelter from the wind. (20) And below the coastal strip was completely hidden by the tide. (21) Well, I got settled. (22) I leaned the gun against the stone wall, broke the spruce branches, prepared a bed for myself... (23) “I’ll spend the night here peacefully,” I think to myself, “and tomorrow at dawn I’ll move on.” (24) Suddenly I hear: someone is climbing onto my platform. (25) Stones fall from under it, knock on the rock, the bushes move. (26) Who is this guy who is saving himself from the tide? 51 (27) I look: a bear’s head rises above the platform! (28) We stared at each other, and for a moment we both froze in surprise. (29) I don’t know what the bear managed to think about, but I thought: “Well, that’s it... (ZO) Now he’ll paw me with his paw - and I’ll somersault off the cliff into the water! (31) This is bad..." (32) I got completely cold and forgot about the gun... (33) And suddenly a wave hits from below! (34) And there is such multi-ton power in it - the rock shook and spray flew up! (35) It hit both of us like a fire hose. (Zb) The bear squeaked - and rushed straight into my arms! (37) That’s right - fear has big eyes! (38) It turned out to be no bear, but a small, one-year-old bear cub. (39) He must have fallen behind his mother and started playing on the shore - he was caught in the water and scared to death. (40) He clung to me like a child, hides his head and only trembles with fear - finely, finely, with all his skin... (41) I stroked him carefully: what if he gets a bite? (42) No, I see, it’s okay, he’s tolerating it. (43) And the wave will give again! (44) I covered the bear cub with my canvas jacket, warmed myself up next to him, and so he and I - you won’t believe it! - and dozed off to the howl of the wind and the crash of the surf. (45) Only from each blow of the wave did the little bear flinch in his sleep. (46) He breathed evenly and clung to me so trustingly... (47) I think what an amazing story. (48) This is not in the circus, where trained bears do all sorts of things for a piece of sugar. (49) This is a wild beast! (50) But trouble came - and he came to the man. (51) Trusts... (52) It would always be like this! (53) Peacefully... (According to L. Kuklin)
15.3. How do you understand the meaning of the word TRUST? Formulate and comment on the definition you have given. Write an essay-argument on the topic: “What is trust?”, taking the definition you gave as the thesis. When arguing your thesis, give 2 (two) examples-arguments confirming your reasoning: give one example-argument from the text you read, and the second from your life experience. The essay must be at least 70 words. If the essay is a retelling or completely rewritten of the original text without any comments, then such work is scored zero points. Write an essay carefully, legible handwriting.
Option 1 Trust is a quality that allows you to live in harmony with the world and yourself. After all, it helps you be confident in who you trust. That is why the bear cub rushed straight into the narrator’s hands (sentence 36). For him, a wild beast, the fear of the raging storm turned out to be stronger than the fear of the eternal enemy - man. This means that the bear cub was sure that no harm would be done to him, that he would be saved. I saw a similar story on TV when in the Primorsky Territory a tiger caught in a trap came to people for help. He seemed to feel that not all people were bad, like the poacher who hunted him. Trustingly coming out to the village, the tiger apparently understood: only people would help him in this situation. It is joyful that this happened: the tiger’s paw was freed from the trap, the wound was cured, and the striped predator was again released into the taiga. I think that trusting relationships are very valuable.
Option 2 Trust is complete confidence in the integrity of someone you trusted, opened up to, and relied on in difficult times. A relationship built on trust is an honest relationship. Would the frightened bear cub cling to the narrator, “like a child” (sentence 40), and sleep under one jacket (sentence 44), if he were not absolutely sure that he would not be offended? And how could a person from whom the beast sought protection could offend him? It’s not for nothing that they say that trust is the key to the heart. But it is also worth adding: to a kind and honest heart that is able to understand the one who trusted.
Option 3 Trust is an amazing opportunity to open a world of new relationships, very kind and honest. Confidence in someone you have trusted, or in someone who has trusted you, makes us better. For example, the bear cub, sleeping peacefully next to the narrator (sentence 46), of course, had complete trust in his savior, and from this the person himself is ready for a kind response: “I stroked him carefully...”. And in life we trust many people, even without knowing them: the bus driver or train driver who takes us; the captain of the airliner in which we are flying; the cooks who prepare the food... I am sure that they too are disposed towards us. Our life is unthinkable without mutual trust.
Option 4 Trust is a state in which you are confident in another. Trust is impossible without a feeling of complete security. In L. Kuklin's story, the hero, caught in bad weather, experiences an event that he will remember forever. The bear cub, like a man, was left alone with the elements. The common random shelter not only united them, but also brought them very close (sentences 33-36). Feeling safe, the bear cub completely trusted the person (sentences 40, 46). And the man, who was initially afraid of the wild animal, also realized that the bear cub would not bite him. Mutual trust gave them a feeling of security and confidence in each other. I believe that good relationships are impossible without this wonderful quality! Option 5 Trust is the confidence that you will not be betrayed in your existing relationship. However, it can only be earned through actions. The events narrated by the narrator in L. Kuklin’s text are amazing: a bear suddenly jumped out to a man who had taken refuge from the weather on a rock ledge. It’s hard to imagine such a neighborhood, but the man did not drive away the beast, which turned out to be a bear cub. Thrown by the elements into the hands of a man, the baby realized that the savior would not betray him, would not drive him away from this shelter, and therefore dozed off next to him (sentences 40, 44, 46). An example of trust in each other can also be the relationship between Zhilin and Dina in the story “Prisoner of the Caucasus.” But they did not arise immediately: Zhilin earned them with a good deed - he sculpted dolls for a girl, and she subsequently helped him escape from captivity. Trusting relationships are priceless and should be treasured.
Option 6 Trust is the lack of expectation of danger from the one with whom you find yourself close. A sense of security is very important in such relationships. In L. Kuklin's story, the traveler was overtaken by bad weather. The bear cub finds himself in the same situation. And when, driven by a wave onto a rock, he sees a man, he understands that the threat of the elements is worse than his neighborhood (sentences 33-36). And the man did not betray his trust: he covered the bear cub with his jacket and warmed him with his warmth. They even dozed together (sentence 44), which is evidence of their complete spiritual comfort. An example of trust can be the relationship between climbers climbing to the top of a mountain. They all go together, and the life of a group of people depends on the actions of each. Without trust, it is impossible to build sincere relationships.
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